Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Finally....

After this blog has been abandoned for months, at last I'm able to blog in the office. I guess it should be the outcome from the Employee Satisfaction Survey that they have just conducted that makes our VP decides to open the port for us. But messengers are still no no...
What is Jaiden's development so far? He is able to stand and cruise with help. He is getting more and more naughty nowadays. He is just like a worm (we often call him cacing now). He many times irritates me during his feeding time. Once I lie him down, he will immediately roll and crawl away. That makes me extremely difficult to feed him. Since I'm a hot tempered person, I find it quite hard to control my temper nowadays.
Apart from being naughty, of course he at times melt our heart. He started to talk now. The 1st word from him was ba ba ba ba ba ma ma ba ba... Few tricks that he knows now: -
1) pau pau (full) -> palm on his tummy
2) shake hand
3) where is your leg? -> he'll lift up his leg
4) gong xi gong xi
5) bye bye
6) comb hair
7) dim chung chung
8) call mummy -> he will respond ba ba ba ba....

Something that starts bothering me and hubby now. Jaiden seems to like Ngo Jeh (the babysitter) and her husband more than his papa mama. When we fetch him after work, he will cry and lift his hands towards NJ's husband so that he could carry him. He prefers their house more than going home. Reasons could be: -
1) there are kids at their house who will play with him
2) NJ and uncle seldom scold him. Daddy & mummy always scolds him and everytime says "No" when he starts to hold or play something. If I were him, I will prefer NJ too.... Sigh....

I have no idea what and how shall we raise Jaiden. We can't follow his desire everytime as this may spoils him. We can't be so strict to him as well, as this will led him dislike daddy, mummy and home. How????

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